By Cathy Lee
It’s a threatening word that faces us in modern day life, something that we can’t back down from.
The pronoun before the dreaded word is very important too. “You have, I have, your wife has, your friend has” and so on.
Cancer is a sickening challenge, like that one competitor in the game who’s a born dominant fighter that you have to rise above to have a chance at overcoming.
Not an easy thing either, I might add.
How people tackle the beast of the C word has always fascinated me. From those suffering with the outer skin types, the internal organs types, brain tumours and in my opinion the worst case, the blood.
One in three people in Ireland today are affected by Cancer directly, but think about how many families and friends are indirectly affected.
This probably sounds like it’s going to be a downer piece but trust me, it’s not.
I want to share with you an incredible story of friendship, innovation and generosity which I witnessed in my own home town recently.
Last week I came across a link called “Aaron’s fight” that friends from home were sharing online. The image attached to the link looked kind and familiar, like I recognised the kids in the photograph across the screen.
The online world is a hectic place. Things such as these are easy to scroll past or look at half-heartedly. But not this one.
I clicked in, thinking some young lad from home had gotten in a fight or something. I was pleasantly surprised to see that this wasn’t the case.
“Aaron’s Fight” is a fundraising campaign for a young man, Aaron de Veerde, who has been fighting T-cell Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia for just over one year now.
Fighting is not strong enough of a term to describe this young man. From my reading and from talking to his best friend Blaine McKeever, who started this campaign, he’s an inspirational kid who has never wanted to give up.
Since his diagnoses, Aaron
has suffered the loss of sight in one eye and also missed out on the chance to finish secondary school with his classmates, a big step defining step in any adolescents life.
With this in mind, feeling inspired by his friend, Blaine came up with the innovative idea to use online means to secure Aaron a fighting chance at overcoming his cancer.
Blaine is a UCD student aged 19 and comes from Wicklow and is a long standing friend of Aaron. This campaign was a simple idea of telling Aaron’s story and appealing to the generosity of others in order to raise €10,000 for Aaron to travel to Florida to seek vital survival treatment.
This escalated over the last few days, with nearly 350 people donating to the cause online as well as directly to Blaine himself.
The €10k was collected in under a week from friends, neighbours and even those outside of the Wicklow catchment area.
The response was huge, as now there is even a charity concert being planned for early March with local bands who are friends of Aarons providing the entertainment.
“Aarons’ Fight” will go on until April, and the campaign continues today.
The extra donations past the now reached target are being used for family support and other donations such as to St. Vincents hospital, Dublin.
The support is huge and Blaine has been amazed by the ultimate generosity saying “It’s the people sharing and donating that deserve the thanks”.
What we can take from this story is that friendship is something extraordinary and any challenge, even one such as brutal as cancer, can be stepped up against with the strength and support in valuable numbers.
Daily, people complain about money constraints and their unwillingness to spend, yet this is such a different case. As the story grows and continues, I think the nature of giving will as well once this strong sense of dedication to friendship is recognised.
Check out the campaign here and I encourage you to donate to “Aaron’s Fight”. https://www.gofundme.com/aaronsfight